Sick

Damn it! My wife is off every other Friday and we had agreed that on those mornings she would take our son to school and then we would have some play before I started working. Today she was suppose to try out her new rodeo harness and fuck me hard and make me her bitch.

All week I have been slaving around the house getting everything done for her. But at the same time I have been fighting a stomach bug. We were suppose to have sex a couple of times and those were cancelled. Last night I had to give up the ghost and tell her I still had the stomach bug and there was no way we could follow through on our game plan.

Damn you stomach bug!

Moving Back into a Normal Routine

My in-laws were visiting this past weekend, which as I have said always makes my wife more shall we say demanding (others might say bitchy). And this weekend was definitely not the exception, she had me running around constantly. I think with her now having the dominant role in our relationship she really enjoys exerting it when her parents are around.

I was told I was getting sex last night and that it was going to be a good one (no ruined or clean-up). I was damn excited because I woke up yesterday extremely horny and was climbing the walls.Unfortunately as the day went I started feeling worse and worse with an ear ache and sore throat. I finally had to throw in the towel and ask for a rain check (I was that miserable) which my wife agreed too. So hopefully tonight!

I have gotten almost all of my chores done for today so hopefully there won't be much going into the Behavior Modification notebook. She has actively been using it again and the balance is going up. Not looking forward to settling up on that. 

I expect that this week we will be a lot more back in our routine. Chores, shaving her legs and massaging coconut oil into her legs and then orally servicing her at night . Maintenance spanking on Thursday night and  this Friday is her Friday off so expect she will be fucking my ass (our new game plan is that we do this on her Friday's off).

Laundry is done!

As I had indicated last week, my wife had a lot of plans for getting things back going. One was she had been piling, and I do mean piling, all of the laundry in the spare bedroom for me to have to deal with. I have finally gotten it done last night! It took a lot of time but her parents are coming down today so I really had my back against a wall. My reward was after putting coconut oil on her legs, I got to orally pleasure her. It was a good night.

My wife is still working on getting back into being the demanding head of the household we both expect. We were talking about it this morning and she thinks that will change with her mom coming. She always gets more bitchy when her mom is down.

Back Home from Dark Odyssey

I am home from Dark Odyssey Winter Fire. The weather really added a lot of stress to the beginning of the trip. I go early to this event and leave late because I help with the set-up and tear down. Ended up getting there a night earlier then planned because of the snow. And lead to one of my hottest events with my wife's best friend of all people.

The event was great and I was running around with lots of socializing and playing. People really missed my wife, she hasn't come out in awhile. There were lots of texts back and forth and she has now committed to going next year.

Right before I had left my wife and son were both dealing with bad colds. So guess what...yep I got sick during the event UGH! Sunday, I woke up just miserable and had to cancel all of my plans (which of course was suppose to have been my busiest). The worst part was trying to do tear down on Monday. Man that was rough but somehow I pulled my weight and we got it all done.

I am still pretty sick but my wife is not letting that stop her in her resuming her role as head of the house.

 

The Wife is Planning

Last night my wife shared with me how excited she is for next week. She has been planning since our break she has just been piling all the laundry in the spare bedroom. It is a mountain and guess who gets to deal with it all?

She, also, told me that I am getting locked back up immediately when I get home and to not be expected to get to cum for a long time. And that I should plan on having a very sore tongue from all the oral she is expecting. Not that there won't be a lot of fucking going on because she told me next Friday she is going to fuck me hard and long while being locked up.

So I guess next week will be an interesting time especially since I am so out of the routine.

Winter Fire is Next Week

Next week I am going to Dark Odyssey Winter Fire in D.C.. I am really looking forward to the weekend of kinky fun. I have a number of play dates set-up and really it will be nice to have a weekend that is all BDSM all the time. 

At this time the event is really the only public event I am going to. My wife doesn't really go out to them anymore but she definitely encourages me to still get out. It is a great time and I get to see good friends from around the country that I only run into at events.

One scene that I am working on is a woman wants to do a strip tease and drive a man absolutely crazy. Having him moaning and begging and she wants to leave him with blue balls. She asked if I had any experience with blue balls. Told her yes my wife likes to keep me locked up and frustrated a lot.

I will be coming home beaten and used. Of course when I get home it will be pay back time and I know it will be right back to lock down and a long list of chores.

Best Laid Plans

Hi! Yes I am still out here. As I posted my wife had some pretty big plans for us after my birthday. Well none of it happened. The 21 day diet she wanted us to do really killed it I guess. The diet just gave her a constant headache and made me really moody. Then our fridge and dishwasher went so we ended up having to replace all of our kitchen appliances. So the stress at our house has been incredible.

So guess who has been more upset that things have fallen apart? Nope, not me. It is definitely my wife. She has been at an absolute loss and really not happy about the situation.

Things have finally settled down and we seem to not be having the problems we were with the diet and other stresses. So last night I asked her if she would want to go back to the way things were. I have never seen her respond as fast with a "YES!" We have agreed that we would go back after my trip next week to Dark Odyssey Winter Fire (http://www.darkodyssey.com/winterfire/home.php).

I have said it before but we really function better when she is actively leading the relationship. Hopefully this will get our mojo back.