Work in Progress

We are still talking about things, my wife is very determined for us to get back to our FLR. And honestly I would like to as well. I have been really depressed and overwhelmed lately and I think it is just the lack of guidance if that makes any sense. But we need to take this slowly and figure out what will work for us and how we can keep it from becoming so routine that you stop doing it.

As a way of ensuring follow through my wife has added activities like maintenance and punishment spankings. And Wednesdays are suppose to be our maintenance nights. She brought it up several times during the day and then again in the evening. I really just expected it to be talk but once our son was asleep she said we were doing it. I resisted a bit but she was firm and today I am glad she did.

Today, I went and made the bed, prepared her tea and dealt with all of the laundry. Things that were routine in our FLR but since the issues have just gone away. I hope she sees it as my being willing for us to continue to figure out how we can get back to it.

I am away for the weekend (she is not amused about my missing Mother's Day) but I am hopeful we can discuss further before I leave. But we will see, still don't know where we go from here.

Still Here

Just thought I would do quick post, this week has been really hectic for us so not a whole lot going on. My work has been incredibly stressful and my wife has been in a training class. And then I started a running 101 class so been stiff and sore. So we really have not done a lot other then my daily chores. But my wife came in yesterday for work and I was soaking my sore muscles in the tub and got undressed climb up and pissed all over my face and then just walked out.

And no she still has not let cum this week but tomorrow is Friday and she did say I would get to then.

Sick

Damn it! My wife is off every other Friday and we had agreed that on those mornings she would take our son to school and then we would have some play before I started working. Today she was suppose to try out her new rodeo harness and fuck me hard and make me her bitch.

All week I have been slaving around the house getting everything done for her. But at the same time I have been fighting a stomach bug. We were suppose to have sex a couple of times and those were cancelled. Last night I had to give up the ghost and tell her I still had the stomach bug and there was no way we could follow through on our game plan.

Damn you stomach bug!

Moving Back into a Normal Routine

My in-laws were visiting this past weekend, which as I have said always makes my wife more shall we say demanding (others might say bitchy). And this weekend was definitely not the exception, she had me running around constantly. I think with her now having the dominant role in our relationship she really enjoys exerting it when her parents are around.

I was told I was getting sex last night and that it was going to be a good one (no ruined or clean-up). I was damn excited because I woke up yesterday extremely horny and was climbing the walls.Unfortunately as the day went I started feeling worse and worse with an ear ache and sore throat. I finally had to throw in the towel and ask for a rain check (I was that miserable) which my wife agreed too. So hopefully tonight!

I have gotten almost all of my chores done for today so hopefully there won't be much going into the Behavior Modification notebook. She has actively been using it again and the balance is going up. Not looking forward to settling up on that. 

I expect that this week we will be a lot more back in our routine. Chores, shaving her legs and massaging coconut oil into her legs and then orally servicing her at night . Maintenance spanking on Thursday night and  this Friday is her Friday off so expect she will be fucking my ass (our new game plan is that we do this on her Friday's off).

Laundry is done!

As I had indicated last week, my wife had a lot of plans for getting things back going. One was she had been piling, and I do mean piling, all of the laundry in the spare bedroom for me to have to deal with. I have finally gotten it done last night! It took a lot of time but her parents are coming down today so I really had my back against a wall. My reward was after putting coconut oil on her legs, I got to orally pleasure her. It was a good night.

My wife is still working on getting back into being the demanding head of the household we both expect. We were talking about it this morning and she thinks that will change with her mom coming. She always gets more bitchy when her mom is down.

The Wife is Planning

Last night my wife shared with me how excited she is for next week. She has been planning since our break she has just been piling all the laundry in the spare bedroom. It is a mountain and guess who gets to deal with it all?

She, also, told me that I am getting locked back up immediately when I get home and to not be expected to get to cum for a long time. And that I should plan on having a very sore tongue from all the oral she is expecting. Not that there won't be a lot of fucking going on because she told me next Friday she is going to fuck me hard and long while being locked up.

So I guess next week will be an interesting time especially since I am so out of the routine.

Getting Back

We are working on getting back to our routine. Last night we took a tub and I shaved her legs. Then we watched "Heat" with Sandra Bullock and Melissa McCarthy, which was very funny. Our son has a day off from all the snow and ice so he has been entertaining himself watching netflix, so I didn't have to make the bed. But got her tea made, laundry done and kitchen straightened up.

Doing ok with being locked up, yes it has only been since Saturday night but we haven't really done long term. I am horny as all get out but that is my normal state. During our tub last night after I was done shaving her my wife rubbed the cage with her feet. That just drove me absolutely crazy!

We had a good conversation through G-Chat today. Just reviewing where we are in our relationship, what we need to work on before the New Year. As I have said we really want to have this worked out where FLR is just how we are. I think in terms of FLR, we will be where we want to be. We are a little out of our groove because of last week but expect that to quickly be corrected. There are some areas that we need to make more of a focus and be consistent with. And we agreed that we both still interested and would focus more on.  It was a good conversation and I think that we are both on the same page and were happy with our progress.

Tonight will be low key because of Monday Night Football but we have big plans for tomorrow night so I am excited.

Happy Return to Things

This morning we resumed our WLM status and I can tell you we are both relieved. My wife was in the shower and I went over and gave her a kiss and said I am glad we are back to our normal status. She let out a big sigh and said "Yeah, me too." And then gave me a couple of tasks that she needed done and I was off.

Handled the laundry, cleaned up the kitchen and got her tasks done. My wife took our son to a school activity when they got home we went out as a family to do some grocery shopping. She hurt her back this week so I was quick to make sure she did not pick anything up. When we got home I dealt with the groceries, walked the dogs and then made lunch. She has been very quick to going back to giving instructions and having me do things.

I am still not yet locked, last night she decided that I deserved one last cum before lock up again but wanted to wait until we had resumed things. With her back I don't think she will be up for sex but even a handjob would be great! Of course the reason I think she waited until we had resumed is she gets so hot by forcing me to consume my mess. I can tell you I think it is disgusting but a couple days later for some reason I remember it being really hot.

What can I say I think that this style of relationship really works for us.

Just serving

Not much really going on, my wife was sick this weekend and was nice enough to share it with me. Been cooking a lot, cleaning and dealing with laundry. Last night we bathed together and she had me shave her legs, she said she is really enjoying this routine. I was unlocked this weekend and was suppose to be locked again last night but our son had some nightmares so we were not able to lock me down.

She is working late tonight so we will continue to not be in our regular routine. I am just trying to do the things that make her life easier. And hoping that at some point it will lead to more kinky fun.

A look at my new life

So I am locked up again. I have been told release will be Friday, I am hoping knowing when I will get out will make it easier to cope and not get cranky.

I thought I would describe my night as it might give some view of the changes that have occurred. My wife is in a training class that she is doing from home but goes until 7pm. I went up stairs and folded and put away all of the laundry while I waited for her to finish. Once our son went to sleep, I walked the dogs for their final walk. When I got back I prepared a tub for my wife and I. And then I shaved her legs in the tub. Once we got out I gave her a light massage to her lower body. After I put coconut oil on her legs and feet. She then decided she was hungry so I ran downstairs to get her dinner and to clean up the kitchen.

Oh and in case you didn't think she did anything she made sure to smack my private parts for a good while. Yes, this is my new life.

Household chores

I know a lot of people that blog about FLRs talk about the husband being responsible for doing all of the household chores. I really have no idea how they make that work (unless they are house husbands). Our loves are just too crazy with everything going on.
That doesn't mean that chores are changing. When we started out I was told I needed to make the bed everyday. And then this past weekend, I had to work all weekend so was pretty much trapped at our house (I work from home). Saturday morning she talked about the fact that our laundry was out of control. She started it and then went running around doing things with our son. Since I was stuck at home I decided I should make her life easier and spent time folding clothes and transferring clothes for washer to dryer (I won't start the wash as I generally screw it up). When they came home my wife was blown away and incredibly happy.
Sunday was pretty much more of the same. Me, being stuck at home for work and her taking our son out and doing fun activities. Again, she had started the laundry so I spent time getting all of that taken care of. And she had told me she wanted kielbasa and sauerkraut for dinner so with work I was running around a lot. Because I also needed to straighten up the kitchen and other things. Again she was thrilled at everything that had gotten done. Later in the night we again had a really good discussion about where we were. And she said my dealing with the laundry after she starts it was really really working for her. And to be honest it really worked for me too.
As I said when I started this post I really do not believe we will ever go to me handling all the household chores. To us it is really just unrealistic. But I will say the chores that I have taken over really do something to my mindset, if that makes any sense? As I am doing the chores I am realizing I am doing these things to make my wife's life easier and that it is an act of service and I don't know as my wife said it just really works for me.