Sick

Damn it! My wife is off every other Friday and we had agreed that on those mornings she would take our son to school and then we would have some play before I started working. Today she was suppose to try out her new rodeo harness and fuck me hard and make me her bitch.

All week I have been slaving around the house getting everything done for her. But at the same time I have been fighting a stomach bug. We were suppose to have sex a couple of times and those were cancelled. Last night I had to give up the ghost and tell her I still had the stomach bug and there was no way we could follow through on our game plan.

Damn you stomach bug!

Best Laid Plans

Hi! Yes I am still out here. As I posted my wife had some pretty big plans for us after my birthday. Well none of it happened. The 21 day diet she wanted us to do really killed it I guess. The diet just gave her a constant headache and made me really moody. Then our fridge and dishwasher went so we ended up having to replace all of our kitchen appliances. So the stress at our house has been incredible.

So guess who has been more upset that things have fallen apart? Nope, not me. It is definitely my wife. She has been at an absolute loss and really not happy about the situation.

Things have finally settled down and we seem to not be having the problems we were with the diet and other stresses. So last night I asked her if she would want to go back to the way things were. I have never seen her respond as fast with a "YES!" We have agreed that we would go back after my trip next week to Dark Odyssey Winter Fire (http://www.darkodyssey.com/winterfire/home.php).

I have said it before but we really function better when she is actively leading the relationship. Hopefully this will get our mojo back.

Deflated balloon

I guess I should start with I am angry.... watching tv with my wife sleeping next to me. Tonight was suppose to be a night of fireworks (tonight was the night I was getting unlocked). Now I should have known things were not going to work out when my wife suggested a night off for me because I just got the PS4. Frankly, I was more interested in sex and told her so, but she assured me boom boom was happening... just that I might want to focus on the games.
So when we finally got our son down...I asked to be unlocked (I had to pee and I was hoping to be unlocked anyway), she said sure. Unlocked me and said "sure but we are not having sex."..WTF?!? She then explained that she was tired and had gotten a headache (which has apparently happen nightly since she started the training class she was in).
There were numerous times today where she said we were having sex. Frankly, I would not be as aggravated if it was a case of her saying "I changed my mind." But the thing is I needed to be unlocked tomorrow morning (exercise related activity), and realistically we would not be up before kid, so it had to be tonight.
No, I am not doing anything with my freedom. Just really frustrated and disappointed.