The other night my wife looked at me and said "we are going to be settling up tonight. How many do you think you have coming?" I looked at her and said "I, honestly, think I have been pretty good." She looked at me and laughed and said "no, you have been disrespectful and have used curse words and you know I hate that. So how many do you think you have coming?"
"I guess, um, eight." Again this was meet with laugther, " I was thinking twelve." I wasn't going to argue with her but knew this was going to be hell. I found her punishment spoon (it is a really really thick solid wooden spoon we found just for this type of correction) and asked if I could walk the dogs before hand.
When I got back with the dogs I went upstairs and she said alright drop your pants and get across my lap. As she delivered all twelve strokes I was lectured about my tone and cursing. It has been several days and my butt still hurts. After she had me thank her for helping me to improve and then had me crawl in between her legs and use my tongue to please her. Then it was time to get a condom on (I cringed as that usually means I will be cleaning up my mess), after she came she said that I didn't need to cum. I begged her to please let me and luckily she was kind and did.
Afterwards she climbed off me and said "I will give you a pass tonight but from now on you will be eating your mess. That was definitely a Thank God and UGH moment all rolled into one.
Friday, September 5, 2014
Tuesday, September 2, 2014
Just so we clear we are not having sex tonight
Yesterday, I was at the point of going crazy. I had blue balls and walking just hurt, it has been awhile since I came. I had installed the Sportsheet restraint system on our bed and my wife decided we would make use of it. So I was restrained and she started smacking my cock and then hitting my balls....OUCH! Remember blue balls. There were definitely also ice cubes being shoved into :ahem: places.
Then she climbed on top of me and I could feel how wet she was. Smacking me around clearly worked for her. The only problem was it had been so long I had no staying power, as I was begging her for a moment to recoup I hit the point of no return and begged her to keep going and for it not to be a ruined one. I am happy to say she continued and it was a monumental one.
But I came before her so once I was done (it was one of my longer releases) she had me get into the shower sitting on the floor with bended head and pissed out all the cum I had just inserted.
She said we were going to have sex again tonight. She was out getting her nails done as I folded all of the laundry tonight. She came home and got into bed and I thought we were good to go. Went over to give her oral to pleasure her, when she said she was cold and I needed to wait. About a half hour later I asked if she was ready and she said yes. I got to the foot of the bed and strip down to my panties (she now wants me in panties to remember my place) and said I hoped seeing me doing licky in only the panties would work for her (it did).
Three quarters of the way to orgasm she pulled my head up and said she changed her mind and there would be no sex. I went back to doing my business. She had a huge orgasm. At the end I tried for sex and she said no. I am so desperate that I asked for a ruined one, to which she replied she was going to drink her tea and if she had to pee! she would do it on me while I played with my business.
Unfortunately, she later said I don't have to pee and I am tired so I am going to sleep but when I wake up I am taking you to the bathroom and pissing on you whether you are asleep or awake.
So i am trying to stay awake until that happens.
Monday, June 30, 2014
Getting Back on Track
Long time without posting but there really hasn't been a lot to say in terms of FLR or chastity. But I think there have been a lot of good conversations about our needs and what each of us needs for an FLR to work.
I know a lot of people that want FLRs say that BDSM and kink is really not their motivation. And I tried to think that way but made clear I would like for it to be. I learned that it is not a want for me but a need. I really really love my wife to be in control and making the decisions and my serving her but I need the BDSM & humiliation parts to for it to be satisfying for me. There was a blog post that was about dominance versus abuse but really captured the idea that some submissive husbands need these things for the FLR relationship to be fufilling (it can be found here: http://dommewife.blogspot.com/2014/05/the-fine-line-between-domination-and.html ). My wife was a little taken aback when I showed it to her because of the abuse discussion. I had to explain that I just felt the post captured exactly what I felt that I needed these aspects and it wasn't a simple want.
My wife has really been pushing for us to get back to it. But last week really it just wasn't going to work out but I agreed to start today. Then I really hadn't heard anything more about expectations or anything. So last night I told her it was up to her if we went back to it. I couldn't emotionally get excited for it and be let down again. All she said was ok and then again I voiced some of my frustration and her response was I have given it a lot of thought and I know what I want (not telling me if we were going forward or what her plan was).
This morning I woke up with her going through my drawers and pulling out a pair of panties that I was suppose to wear today. Later in the day I thanked her and she told me to go was out the pee ice trays and that she planned on refilling them this evening. And then she told me I should plan on being in the body bag this evening. So looks like she does have a plan but looks like I will only get to know, what I need to know, when I need to know it.
I know a lot of people that want FLRs say that BDSM and kink is really not their motivation. And I tried to think that way but made clear I would like for it to be. I learned that it is not a want for me but a need. I really really love my wife to be in control and making the decisions and my serving her but I need the BDSM & humiliation parts to for it to be satisfying for me. There was a blog post that was about dominance versus abuse but really captured the idea that some submissive husbands need these things for the FLR relationship to be fufilling (it can be found here: http://dommewife.blogspot.com/2014/05/the-fine-line-between-domination-and.html ). My wife was a little taken aback when I showed it to her because of the abuse discussion. I had to explain that I just felt the post captured exactly what I felt that I needed these aspects and it wasn't a simple want.
My wife has really been pushing for us to get back to it. But last week really it just wasn't going to work out but I agreed to start today. Then I really hadn't heard anything more about expectations or anything. So last night I told her it was up to her if we went back to it. I couldn't emotionally get excited for it and be let down again. All she said was ok and then again I voiced some of my frustration and her response was I have given it a lot of thought and I know what I want (not telling me if we were going forward or what her plan was).
This morning I woke up with her going through my drawers and pulling out a pair of panties that I was suppose to wear today. Later in the day I thanked her and she told me to go was out the pee ice trays and that she planned on refilling them this evening. And then she told me I should plan on being in the body bag this evening. So looks like she does have a plan but looks like I will only get to know, what I need to know, when I need to know it.
Thursday, May 8, 2014
Work in Progress
We are still talking about things, my wife is very determined for us to get back to our FLR. And honestly I would like to as well. I have been really depressed and overwhelmed lately and I think it is just the lack of guidance if that makes any sense. But we need to take this slowly and figure out what will work for us and how we can keep it from becoming so routine that you stop doing it.
As a way of ensuring follow through my wife has added activities like maintenance and punishment spankings. And Wednesdays are suppose to be our maintenance nights. She brought it up several times during the day and then again in the evening. I really just expected it to be talk but once our son was asleep she said we were doing it. I resisted a bit but she was firm and today I am glad she did.
Today, I went and made the bed, prepared her tea and dealt with all of the laundry. Things that were routine in our FLR but since the issues have just gone away. I hope she sees it as my being willing for us to continue to figure out how we can get back to it.
I am away for the weekend (she is not amused about my missing Mother's Day) but I am hopeful we can discuss further before I leave. But we will see, still don't know where we go from here.
As a way of ensuring follow through my wife has added activities like maintenance and punishment spankings. And Wednesdays are suppose to be our maintenance nights. She brought it up several times during the day and then again in the evening. I really just expected it to be talk but once our son was asleep she said we were doing it. I resisted a bit but she was firm and today I am glad she did.
Today, I went and made the bed, prepared her tea and dealt with all of the laundry. Things that were routine in our FLR but since the issues have just gone away. I hope she sees it as my being willing for us to continue to figure out how we can get back to it.
I am away for the weekend (she is not amused about my missing Mother's Day) but I am hopeful we can discuss further before I leave. But we will see, still don't know where we go from here.
Monday, May 5, 2014
Not sure where we go from here
Haven't posted in a real long time. Last time I posted we were about to have an adult weekend of hardcore FLR and kinky fun. Well we had it and it was great but then the wheels kind of fell off of the bus that is our relationship. I really don't know what exactly happened but my wife just stopped leading or anything in terms of FLR. It really hurt and not sure how to say that better.
In the absence of flr, we have really really been struggling and fighting. It has been an incredibly rough month. A couple times she had made passing comments about wanting to get back to it. Then we were talking and she said she doesn't know what caused things to go so wrong between us. I pointed out that we started struggling when she stopped. She thought about it, you could see the wheels turning, and looked at me and said I was right.
Since that conversation she has really been focused on our getting back to it. Asking what it would take and such. Frankly, I am scared about our going back to it and the same thing happening. The last month has been so bad and I really was hurt when things just stopped. We finally seem to be functioning again (not as an flr just a relationship) and not just fighting so the thought that we could start this whole cycle again, you know is scary.
My wife points out that we both function better when we are actively functioning in a female le
d relationship. And I really agree with her. So we are discussing it. I have told her I need a lot more structure and commitment and follow through on her part. And then talking about what we would do differently. I don't know where this will lead but at least we are discussing it
Since that conversation she has really been focused on our getting back to it. Asking what it would take and such. Frankly, I am scared about our going back to it and the same thing happening. The last month has been so bad and I really was hurt when things just stopped. We finally seem to be functioning again (not as an flr just a relationship) and not just fighting so the thought that we could start this whole cycle again, you know is scary.
My wife points out that we both function better when we are actively functioning in a female le
d relationship. And I really agree with her. So we are discussing it. I have told her I need a lot more structure and commitment and follow through on her part. And then talking about what we would do differently. I don't know where this will lead but at least we are discussing it
Sunday, April 6, 2014
Wife's Best Friend: The Event
Alright, wanted to get this down last night but it just didn't happen. Headed out early because I wanted to make sure I was on time. I was suppose to be there at 9:30 and managed to arrive at 9:25. When I came in she was surprised saying "You're early? No one is ever early." Bonus points for me she really liked that. Remember I know her pretty well and knew she would.
It was really a laid back play date. Got in, got naked and got out her liberator shape. She spent some time lubing me up. I told her I hope she found me clean because I spent a lot of time doing enemas to ensure I was clean. She laughed and said she wasn't worried about it. And then she started feeding chain into my ass. Wow! That was a really an interesting experience.
Safety Note: Do not try this at home this is not normal store bought chain. This is stainless steel and completely smoothed out.
Then she pulled it out YUM. She then got on her new custom made strap-on and showed me two cocks to pick from. I went for the fun one! And we climbed on her bed and it was time for business. We started out slowly my legs around her head and then she started thrusting, my legs went down and she started talking about what a slut I was....or maybe I said what a slut I was (it gets blurry). Then she stopped thrusting and told me to bounce on her cock. So what was I to do? I started bouncing.
It was a lot of fun. On the home front, my brother-in-law has headed home and my wife has informed me that the bitch is coming home. And tomorrow things are changing and has given me a long list of things that need to be done before she is home tomorrow.
It was really a laid back play date. Got in, got naked and got out her liberator shape. She spent some time lubing me up. I told her I hope she found me clean because I spent a lot of time doing enemas to ensure I was clean. She laughed and said she wasn't worried about it. And then she started feeding chain into my ass. Wow! That was a really an interesting experience.
Then she pulled it out YUM. She then got on her new custom made strap-on and showed me two cocks to pick from. I went for the fun one! And we climbed on her bed and it was time for business. We started out slowly my legs around her head and then she started thrusting, my legs went down and she started talking about what a slut I was....or maybe I said what a slut I was (it gets blurry). Then she stopped thrusting and told me to bounce on her cock. So what was I to do? I started bouncing.
It was a lot of fun. On the home front, my brother-in-law has headed home and my wife has informed me that the bitch is coming home. And tomorrow things are changing and has given me a long list of things that need to be done before she is home tomorrow.
Friday, April 4, 2014
Wife's Best Friend
We haven't been up to much. Work and some other things have really been crazy with family stuff. But next weekend we are sending my son off to his grandparents and my wife says it is game on!
So my wife's best friend bumped me today and we were chatting. She was looking for play ideas for someone she has been playing with. The conversation then turned to how hot the scene we had a Dark Odyssey. She then told me how she put two feet of chain up the guy's ass. I questioned why she never offered to that to me, she quickly responded "I will, I love it, and it feels good too!" A little later in the conversation she said "So what are you doing tonight?" She said we could play with some chain and that she has a new strap-on she wants to break in.
My brother-in-law is coming down for the weekend. So we will probably going out to dinner but after that not sure what. So I said I will check with my wife. Checked with my wife and her only question was where? So I told her in our family room thought it would be a floor show. That did not amuse her but then I said of course it would be her place. I told my wife that her friend's husband is out of town and wouldn't mind having some fun.
My wife said sure go for it. She knows I have been desperate for some play. She just wants to make sure that I am up tomorrow morning because I am suppose to take her brother out. So I may be having some fun but I need to figure out what time my brother-in-law is getting in. Stay tuned.
So my wife's best friend bumped me today and we were chatting. She was looking for play ideas for someone she has been playing with. The conversation then turned to how hot the scene we had a Dark Odyssey. She then told me how she put two feet of chain up the guy's ass. I questioned why she never offered to that to me, she quickly responded "I will, I love it, and it feels good too!" A little later in the conversation she said "So what are you doing tonight?" She said we could play with some chain and that she has a new strap-on she wants to break in.
My wife said sure go for it. She knows I have been desperate for some play. She just wants to make sure that I am up tomorrow morning because I am suppose to take her brother out. So I may be having some fun but I need to figure out what time my brother-in-law is getting in. Stay tuned.
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