Sorry for the lack of posts recently, we will get back to posting now that Christmas is over.
We ended up going away for a family vacation this past weekend and ended up extending so we went right into the craziness of the holiday when we got back. It was an interesting trip, we went with another family that is very open that they are in a female led relationship but are not in any way kinky.
It was funny when we met them it was very apparent that the wife was the boss in the family. As we got to know them it was very clear that this was their relationship dynamic but we didn't know how to broach the subject. Then we saw something that they had written and they clearly said that she was the head of the household.
That made bringing up the topic a lot easier. So we broached it and can now discuss things openly which is good that we have someone to talk about it.I have to say when it comes to service he is the best role model for me. He really has it down but at the same time it is good to see that he sometimes gets frustrated with the requests I think it helps me see the reality and that even if my wife gets upset when I am frustrated it happens.
Over the weekend we had a good discussion about goals for 2014, look for that post hopefully tomorrow.
Showing posts with label Holidays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Holidays. Show all posts
Thursday, December 26, 2013
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
Holiday Duldrums
Life has been more then a little stressful lately, my wife is struggling with her Meniere's as I talked about in my last post. Besides the vertigo, the meds just make her incredibly tired. And work is crazy for me before the holiday and just the overall stress that comes from the holidays...so stress really just abounds.
So we really haven't been doing much and frankly trying to force it was becoming stressful. You know it not happening and my wife worrying that she needed to (which she didn't). But we had a chat yesterday and decided we needed to go back to a vanilla mode until New Year's. My wife asked "would I be ok with it?" And of course I was we need to take care of us first and the rest will happen when it is the right time. I know she is really disappointed but she will be able to recover and not be stressed about what she is doing or not doing. And I can focus on getting my work crap out of the way. To be clear she is still the boss and in fact was pointing out last night that I was slacking on the laundry.
I know my wife has a lot of plans for New Year's day, she was planning before this happened. So I imagine she will be even more motivated. In the mean time we have a lot of family time carved out and we are going to spend a lot of time on goals for the New Year (personal, career, family, home and FLR).
We were out at dinner last night and we talked about the blog. I think I will post some of our past exploits, like maybe my pre-bachelor party and some other fun times.
So we really haven't been doing much and frankly trying to force it was becoming stressful. You know it not happening and my wife worrying that she needed to (which she didn't). But we had a chat yesterday and decided we needed to go back to a vanilla mode until New Year's. My wife asked "would I be ok with it?" And of course I was we need to take care of us first and the rest will happen when it is the right time. I know she is really disappointed but she will be able to recover and not be stressed about what she is doing or not doing. And I can focus on getting my work crap out of the way. To be clear she is still the boss and in fact was pointing out last night that I was slacking on the laundry.
I know my wife has a lot of plans for New Year's day, she was planning before this happened. So I imagine she will be even more motivated. In the mean time we have a lot of family time carved out and we are going to spend a lot of time on goals for the New Year (personal, career, family, home and FLR).
We were out at dinner last night and we talked about the blog. I think I will post some of our past exploits, like maybe my pre-bachelor party and some other fun times.
Friday, November 29, 2013
Surviving the Holiday Kind of....
It is Black Friday, luckily my wife and I generally don't really get into it.
I am not sure why but Thanksgiving is never a good holiday for us and this year is no exception. There has been a lot of fighting, I haven't looked but I am sure I have gotten a few entries in the book. Wednesday night there was suppose to be some teasing and denial but we go into a big fight. So bad she was threatening to add an extra week of lock down!!! This 8 days is longer then we have ever gone locked up but I could not imagine 15 days. She did start playing with my cock last night. But then our son had a really bad crisis and was supper upset. So he came in and slept in our bed. I was so frustrated!!!
True to her word my wife has kept me locked. I even broke down and asked to be let out this morning, her response was to giggle and say "No." Getting even a few minutes to talk has been challenging but finally got a few minutes with her and I told her that I really feel disconnected and neglected (other then little things we are totally out of our routine, haven't even gotten to shave or put coconut oil on her legs) then added that I very horny. She laughed and just well you have 48 hours left then thought and said no more like 60-70. At least she was talking hours and not 9 more days as she had threatened.
I am not sure why but Thanksgiving is never a good holiday for us and this year is no exception. There has been a lot of fighting, I haven't looked but I am sure I have gotten a few entries in the book. Wednesday night there was suppose to be some teasing and denial but we go into a big fight. So bad she was threatening to add an extra week of lock down!!! This 8 days is longer then we have ever gone locked up but I could not imagine 15 days. She did start playing with my cock last night. But then our son had a really bad crisis and was supper upset. So he came in and slept in our bed. I was so frustrated!!!
True to her word my wife has kept me locked. I even broke down and asked to be let out this morning, her response was to giggle and say "No." Getting even a few minutes to talk has been challenging but finally got a few minutes with her and I told her that I really feel disconnected and neglected (other then little things we are totally out of our routine, haven't even gotten to shave or put coconut oil on her legs) then added that I very horny. She laughed and just well you have 48 hours left then thought and said no more like 60-70. At least she was talking hours and not 9 more days as she had threatened.
Monday, November 25, 2013
Holiday Week
This is going to be an interesting week. Yes, I did get locked back up and my wife has decided that she wants to push our comfort zones. So I will be locked while her family is here, this is something she has been unwilling to do before. And that I am to be in panty hose during their visit as well. They arrive tomorrow night so she has moved up our maintenance spanking to tonight
When her parents are here it is interesting in that she just normally becomes a lot more bossy. Normally she tries to fight it but she has told me this week she is going to embrace it and be very bossy and that she is really looking forward to it. To which I have been told I will be decorating on Friday for Christmas. It may sound stupid but I hate dealing with this and generally find ways out of it. As I have said before the times they are a changing.
When her parents are here it is interesting in that she just normally becomes a lot more bossy. Normally she tries to fight it but she has told me this week she is going to embrace it and be very bossy and that she is really looking forward to it. To which I have been told I will be decorating on Friday for Christmas. It may sound stupid but I hate dealing with this and generally find ways out of it. As I have said before the times they are a changing.
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