Birthday Week Continues

Last night was hot! I didn't get my birthday blow job yet but another hand job last night. My wife started talking about her plans for the 21 days of lock down. She is planning on cumming every night....fucking my ass with me being locked. She wants to see if she can make me cum just from anal. And of course if anything dribbles out how I will be eating it.

Honestly her describing it was definitely getting me turned on but it was really getting her going. She was really getting worked up thinking about it. As I got close she would stop, that  was driving me crazy. I really did not want a ruined one and she was getting close. I came so hard I would have hit my face if my hand hadn't been there. She just giggled at this.

She then pulled out her vibrator and came really quick. She just kept yelling about "how fucking hot that was!" I think I am going to die during this 21 day diet and lock down.

Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop

As I said in my last post I am currently unlocked and getting to cum every night (tonight I think will be my one and only blow job for the year!). And will remain unlocked until next week....

We were talking about what will go on next week and I have to say what the hell did I get myself into. I knew there was going to be a consequence to this birthday week but UGH!!! My wife and I have agreed to start a 21 day sugar detox next Monday and then a friend of hers needed someone to review a book on an autoimmune protocol and since I have RA she asked if I could. My wife decided that was a fantastic idea and told me so. So I said sure if I she would use me anally twice a week during the 21 days, my wife agreed so I thought I had made a good deal. Well later in the evening I asked about how long my next lockdown was going to be for and she grinned and said the entire time we are doing the 21 day detox!!!!

Remember the longest I have gone locked down is only 9 days. So 21 days is a BIG jump. And on top of it she is going to be anally using me without any chance of my even getting erect let alone cumming! I have no idea how I will survive this diet, denial and being used.

Birthday Week

We have just gotten back from visiting my grandfather down in Florida. Yesterday was his and my birthday and the trip was my son's first plane ride. It was a really good visit but meant we were pretty vanilla. My wife was still the boss but that was about it.

The week of my birthday I get my one blow job for the entire year. So I bet you all can figure I am damn excited! But I have also managed to negotiate a week of cumming! Each night she will give me one orgasm, to say I am giddy would not even begin to capture my excitement. I know that there will be a cost on the other side but I am content to focus on the upside.

Oh and since she is giving me an orgasm everyday she decided that I would not need to be locked up!

Play Room

A couple of weeks ago we had a pipe in our basement break, so besides the obvious repairs we had to get the main room repainted. My wife did not like the way one of the colors looked and the painter had already purchased it so I suggested we use it in our play room.

The painter just finished, I am planning on making some nice storage areas for our toys and we need to rehang pictures and stuff but here are a couple of pictures of the space. So happy with how it turned out.

Was really nervous about letting the painter in to see everything in the room but he didn't say a word and even added some touches that make the room like adding a dimmer to our light.

Anniversary Post

Our anniversary was back in September and we decided to go to a nice bed and breakfast in one of the old, country towns that is not to far from our house. We got there early and wandered around the antique shops and just had a nice day.

Afterwards we went back to our room and took a nap. And then we decided it was time for us to play, I was told to go clean myself out. So I went into the bathroom for probably a half hour and listened to Rush. When I came out I got to see my beautiful wife lounging around with her strap-on just waiting for me. 

All I can say is she used me in every corner of that room. My wife had her way with me for a long time and it was such an amazing night. I felt so connected to her. And it was overwhelming too. At one point she talked about going ass to mouth and I said "No way!" She stopped fucking me and had me get on my knees as she stood over me with her strap-on in my face. And she lectured me that if she wants me to suck her cock after she has fucked me I will do it. All I could say was "Yes Ma'am." Luckily she went back to fucking my ass and never made me do that.

Afterwards we went to a wonderful dinner and a had an incredible night.

Njoy Butt Plug

I spent a good part of yesterday cleaning out my closet (it was truly a nightmare), my wife yelled at me that I should have warned her as she almost had a heart attack. Yes, it was that bad. I am really close to being done.  It's probably 95% done with just some boxes to go through.

I really wanted to get this accomplished but another reason was in that disaster my Njoy butt plug lived.  As I have said we are going to be focusing a lot on anal in 2014 so this will be used a lot. In the past my wife has given me weekly targets for how long I needed to wear it so it was important to find this.

I am not sure if you have experience with the Njoy products but let me tell you they are top notch stainless steel insertable products. And being that they are all metal you definitely notice the weight but are very easy to use for long term use. Other butt plugs I have never felt are designed well for long term use. I highly recommend.

2014 Goals

While we were away this past weekend, our son ended up spending Saturday night in our friends' room (all the kids wanted to be together). So Sunday morning I woke up and wanted badly to have sex (I love morning sex but with the kid around it never happens). I was able to convince my wife, through begging and pleading that it was a good idea and she really was doing it just because she knows how much I love it.

Well I am a very verbal person and love to be talked to during sex. So I had asked if she had been thinking of any goals for the new year in terms of the FLR relationship and she had. So the goals she has set are as follows:

1. No more breaks from our new roles, she knows things come up but from now on we deal with them in our agreed upon dynamic. As I have said she is really embracing our new roles and is very happy in the roles. She feels we work much better with her the dominant and my following her lead.
2. Currently she only makes me clean-up (eat) probably about 50% of the messes that I make when I am allowed to cum. Going forward her goal is that will be 100%. UGH!!!! I hate this and it is so disgusting, but as I have said before thinking about the times she has made me do this is always hot.
3. She want us to focus on making BDSM/Kinky play happen a lot more. She acknowledge that we have to really force it for awhile to get ourselves back in the routine. She feels that we have gotten our relationship dynamic in a good place (still a lot of room for growth but it is an ongoing process) but we both want play to be a part of this and it needs to be a focus.

I got nervous about goal number two as we were having sex and whether she planned on implementing it immediately. She said no, she was worried our son would wander back over. But going forward yes....

We have talked some more and I have asked that we make the theme for the year anal. We both love it but it just doesn't seem to happen that often. But I think after an incredible anniversary date we both realize how much it needs to be a focus. So that is our theme and I asked that we add one additional goal...

   4. To work me up to the point that by the end of the year she will have fisted me. This is a pretty big goal and my wife is doubtful but I know if we focus on making play and anal play happen we can get there.

So those are our FLR/BDSM goals as they stand for 2014. Not sure if she will decide on any more, like chastity goals or anything. We try and keep the number of goals down (but that have a lot of things under them) so that we can focus on hitting them. We have other goals but not really appropriate for this blog.